Q: How do I stop Jira automatically setting me as a watcher every time I create or contribute to an issue?
A: In any Jira screen,
1] click your Account menu in the upper right-hand corner and choose “Personal Settings“:

2] In Personal Settings, change “Watch your issues” to “Disabled” and click the “Save changes” button:

that’s it!
plucked from this Jira support page.
. . . and don’t forget this tip to stop following already-followed tickets!